Thursday, 29 November 2012

November Ups and Downs


There are times when it is difficult to think of anything to write in this blog. I certainly don’t want it to become dull and repetitive. November has been neither dull nor repetitive.
Tabby and Donella - star quality

Things kicked off on the first weekend of November  when Tabby and Donella took part in the “It’s good 2 give” fashion show. This took place in the performing arts centre at Stewarts Melville College – a great venue. Along with another 40 or so models, Tabby and Donella were assigned three fashion boutiques around Edinburgh and in the run up to the event attended each for fittings etc .
Receiving the plaudits

On the day of the Show, all the models had their hair done by   Charlie Millerand his team . For those of us expecting something out of the “Women’s Institute” – dream on. The show was glitz and glamour at its finest.    Organised by the wonderful  Lynne Mcnicoll, the show was hosted by Grant Stott – ably assisted by three girls who have all been on the Ward 2 Roller-coaster. All the models were affiliated to Ward 2 at the “Sick Kids” – either patients, family, staff or friends.  I was asked up on stage and interviewed by Grant Stott about Tabby, the last 12 months and “It’s good 2 give”.
"Hurry up Lynne!" (Only joking)

The show was terrific. It was so good to see so many patients and “ex – patients” taking part and at times was quite moving. Tabby looked wonderful in each of her  outfits – she and Donella seemed very at home on the cat-walk. In the last set, Tabby appeared in a lovely bridesmaid dress with a fur stole while Donella wore a show-stopping red glittery ball gown (apologies for inadequate fashion speak). She looked stunning.  It was hard not to break into a cheesy Chris de Burgh song (Lady in Red). It was even harder not to buy “that dress” for Donella. Anyway it was a great day – we had a ball.
Tabby and Kelly Brown, Scotland Captain

A week later, as the “orthopaedic” member of the medical team at the Scotland New Zealand rugby international, James Robson (team doctor) invited Tabby and me to a training session to meet some of the players. I picked Tabby up from school and we went along to Murrayfield to watch the last hour of a training session.  James had set this all up. Throughout the time players would come over and chat to Tabby and pause for a photo. At the end of the session 8 or 9 of the guys jogged across the pitch and presented Tabby with a signed Scottish Rugby jersey and an SRU fleece.  The biggest guys in the team, Al, Jim and Richie then picked Tabby up and put her on their shoulders – about 10 feet up in the air!  Tabby called them her “Gentle Giants”.  It was good fun and I am pleased to report that Tabby was nearly as excited as I was!
Nick, Mike, Jim, Richie and Al

I would like to thank James and all the guys who took the time to come and have a chat with Tabby and have a photo. You could never meet a nicer bunch of people who train so hard and are so keen to help out. The recent Autumn Series results and loss of their coach seems scant reward for all their hard work. Keep it going lads!
Proof that I am as tall as Richie Gray

Tabby continues to work hard at school and really enjoys her after school clubs. Her favourites are “Funky Fitness” and “Street Dance”.  She is also in the choir. In fact P3 will be singing “Silent Night” in German in the carol service. Last week, Tabby found the music on her I pod and we discovered her practicing in her bedroom. She sounded truly angelic. At times one almost forgets that Tabby is still in the middle of her chemotherapy – until the week of steroids that is. Last week we certainly witnessed a short fuse of frustration against a background level of general grumpiness!  When the steroids stop she is back to our usual Tabby. Over the last month her appetite has been poor. Big on carbohydrate and low on protein. She told me recently, that meat and sausages now taste like pooh. I believe this is a common complaint with those on chemotherapy and not a reflection of Donella’s cooking.  At the moment her diet comprises chicken and “Nutella”.

As a consequence of her chemotherapy, Tabby’s neutrophil count has continued to decline. In fact her mercaptopurine and methotrexate was stopped a fortnight ago to allow some recovery. Despite that, Tabby awoke on Tuesday morning with a high temperature. Bags packed, Donella and Tabby were off to the “Sick Kids” again. She is now back in her usual room in Ward 2.   After 3 days we still have not found the bug and suspect it’s a virus. Her temperature is coming down although with the occasional spike of pyrexia to keep everyone on their toes.  At the moment, Tabby has no neutrophils – none  whatsoever- it seems. So at the moment she is on high doses of intravenous antibiotics until her temperature comes down and she grows a few more neutrophils.  

Just when you think everything is running smoothly!

Finally, this evening Tabby popped out of  Wd 2 briefly to deliver a quiz sheet to “Radio Lollipop”. Fifteen minutes later, she still had not returned. Donella went to investigate and found her in the “Radio Lollipop” studio being interviewed – live on air! She was on air for ten minutes talking about herself, her family, the cats and favourite holidays. The only thing she didn’t do was plug her new book. Next week she will be appearing on Parkinson and Jonathon Ross.

Donella has spent the last 3 nights in hospital with her and I will take over on Friday. I hope Tabby gets out soon because we are off to see the Pantomime “Mother Goose” at the Kings next week!

Here’s hoping for a Christmas Tabby  and all of us can enjoy. Christmas blog to follow

 

Merry Christmas,

 

The Lawsons

Thursday, 1 November 2012

Happy Halloween!


The “Tabby News” blog is still going strong. Posts are now monthly – hopefully to reflect fewer ongoing trials and tribulations as Tabby progresses through her maintenance therapy. 

 

At the start of the month, Donella and I were invited to Carol’s  “Sound of Music” **th  birthday party.  All guests had to dress on a “Sound of Music” theme. Tabby and  I watched the film and decided upon  “These are a few of my favourite things”. Although I wore the outfit I think you will agree that Tabby looks  pretty cool as a “Brown paper parcel wrapped up with string”.

Later that weekend, we went through to Glasgow to see the recently opened “Sir Chris Hoy Velodrome”. It is just one part of a multi-sport complex and will be a wonderful  venue for the Commonwealth Games. I am not sure any of us have been converted to track cycling -  the arena has to be kept at a constant high temperature and the banking at either end is pretty steep. I think I would be too slow and simply slide down to the floor of the arena.

The following week, Tabby was invited to Libby’s party at “Kiss the Fish” in Stockbridge. She had a wonderful evening of grafts and decopatch.

Despite all that has happened over the last 10 months, Tabby has never lost her determination and competitive nature. The final swimming lesson before half-term at David Lloyd finished with a race for all the children having lessons on a Saturday morning  -“A float of your choice and 2 lengths of the pool”. Yes, you guessed it.  Having just returned to swimming lessons, Tabby dug in and won. She had the biggest smile of the week.  What can you say?

On 15th October, Donella and I took a flight to Nice and spent 3 days in the village of Eze on the cote d’azure for a short break. What about Tabby? Auntie Anne and cousin Rory kindly came down from Wick to “Tabby sit”. They all went o see the new “Madagascar” movie in 3-D. Tabby says, “It was so much better than great!” Thankyou so much to Anne and Rory for keeping an eye on Tabby while we were away .

Last weekend, Tabby and Donella went to a fashion show rehearsal. They, along with a few others, are both modelling clothes from a variety of shops and boutiques around Edinburgh.  This is being organised by Lynne McNicoll’s “It’s good 2 give” charity. There has been a lot of swaggering up and down the hall as they practice their “cat-walk” walk. Thankfully, we have not yet had any Naomi Campbell-esque tantrums. As someone with negligible dress sense, I am relieved to report that I have not been invited to take part. I will report back in the next blog as to how things go – unless “Hello” or “Harper’s and Queen” get there first.

Halloween has come  - and gone. Tabby, with Donella’s help made a wonderful pumpkin lantern. Despite that, we had no “Guisers” at all last night. I reckon the  Halloween decorations at the front door scared everyone away
 
 
Thanks everyone for reading the blog
 
Tha Lawsons